In response to the common complaint that "white women have the whole world, now they want our men" this next post comes in a question .
Could it be that due to the fact that most, i won't even say most, I'll just say more white women come from two - parent homes. were as more black women come from homes of absent fathers, thus creating a vicious cycle of seeking the wrong kind of attention, and not knowing how a man should be treating you. the perfect recipe for low- self esteem and low self confidence.
Could it be that white women who have lived in the same house as their fathers and know how to be treated have a higher confidence level & come in to these relationships with "our men " with less baggage ? i know in some areas this doesn't even matter but in areas (like mine ) where interracial relationships are the norm, and the black women are angry i personally don't care i date white and black men. i encourage you women white & black to chime in on this. why are we so bothered by a white woman with a black man?
I am a black man that has dated mainly black women my entire life. I used to get offended seeing mixed couples asking what is wrong with him/her? From my experiences in life, the majority of black women tend to be very confrontational on most levels of communication with a man hence being labeled as not knowing there place as a woman. I don't say that to sound schovanistic because I am not. A white woman tends to have all affairs in order i,e, home, children, relationship/marriage without bringing excess drama to the table. In all actuality though, the success of the relationship depends on the individuals involved, what both parties want out of the relationship and last but not least, happiness and love that the the two parties share
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